The Secret Fuel Accelerating Burnout
In the AI era, a leader’s own strengths might be pushing employees—and themself—beyond the brink, explains best-selling author Dan Goleman.
Daniel Goleman is author of the international best-seller Emotional Intelligence and Optimal: How to Sustain Personal and Organizational Excellence Every Day. He is a regular contributor to Korn Ferry.
When it comes to conversations around work, burnout is a recurring headline. But with a surge in the use of AI, the conversation might not be totally caught up to what's driving it these days.
A recent piece in the Harvard Business Review makes a case that's worth paying attention to: Burnout isn't a personal failure, it's a design flaw. What’s more, it looks different depending on where you sit in the organization. Early-career employees burn out from ambiguity and lack of control. Managers burn out from responsibility without authority. Executives burn out from moral injury—the slow erosion that happens when the decisions they're asked to make conflict with what they actually believe. For founders, burn out often happens when the organizational mission and their personal identity become indistinguishable.
What the article doesn't fully name—but what leaders are living right now—is that AI is accelerating every single one of these dynamics at once.
The pressure to adopt, adapt, upskill, and lead through technological transformation isn't landing evenly. Junior employees are navigating an already ambiguous landscape with one more unknown added on top. Managers are being asked to translate an AI strategy they themselves may not fully understand to teams that are afraid of what it means for their jobs. Executives are making high-stakes decisions about automation and workforce restructuring that carry real human consequences—many of which they may not have the time or thought partnership to grapple with. And of course, because it’s technology we are talking about, all of this is happening faster than most organizations can absorb.
Into this environment steps one of the most double-edged competencies in emotional intelligence: achievement orientation.
Achievement orientation is the drive to meet high standards, to improve, to do the work well. In stable conditions, it's an asset—the motivation that can move mountains, expand knowledge and invent new industries. But in less optimal conditions, it’s a trap, the incessant pressure and perfectionism that insidiously drives many capable people towards collapse. For high achievers (and organizations are full of them) AI is a moving target. The standard for "good enough" is consistently shifting as new tools, new capabilities, and new expectations arrive before the last ones have even been integrated. For people who are wired to excel, this can be incredibly destabilizing. When the goal line keeps moving, it can feel like no amount of effort will ever close the gap.
This is where burnout happens—in those moments when the desire to achieve can’t really rest. It’s when a sprint becomes a marathon and a marathon becomes an endless race to some unforeseeable finish line. It’s when wins feel hard to come by and the pressure keeps mounting no matter how many days off a person puts into their schedule.
The antidote here isn't “resilience,” which, in its classic definition, can feel like one more thing to develop or one more standard to meet. It’s actually emotional balance: the capacity to stay regulated under pressure, to know your own limits, and to make decisions from a grounded place rather than a reactive one. Emotionally balanced leaders don't push through at any cost. Instead, they know when to pause, when to protect their teams from an unnecessary load, and when the pace itself is the problem. These leaders can see a flaw in the system and its design clearly enough not to take every single thing so personally.
A leader running on empty—driven by achievement orientation without the stabilizing force of emotional balance—doesn't just burn themself out, but also tends to normalize the conditions that burn out everyone around them. A healthy and well-resourced workforce has a hard time existing in environments where overextension is perpetually modeled and rewarded. When the conditions are about constant overextension, people learn to show their commitment through their availability. What’s more, the people furthest down the org chart, with the least control and the most ambiguity, are at great risk of paying the steepest price.
But a healthy and well-resourced workforce is exactly the kind of workforce the world needs right now. Who else is going to make sense of what is happening with technology and think critically about where we might want to go with it, ethically and otherwise?
It is right to assert that burnout is a design problem. But it's also an emotional-intelligence problem. You can redesign workflows, limit priorities, and clarify decision rights—all of which matter—but if the leaders driving those decisions haven't done the inner work of understanding what drives their behavior and how they impact those around them, nothing actually gets better.
If achievement without balance is a car fast approaching burnout, right now AI has its foot on the accelerator.
The question for leaders isn't whether their organization has an AI strategy, but whether they have the emotional infrastructure to lead people through it — without burning them out in the process.
Co-written by Elizabeth Solomon
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